So...I'm back..?
I kinda stopped blogging for a bit...If you couldn't tell already, but the new year brings new commitments and resolutions. So I've decided to start fresh.
I'm not going to tell you my resolutions, because honestly, I don't have any.
I tend to just make goals for myself throughout the year... realistic goals. This, of course, doesn't mean that I think the whole 'new years resolutions' thing is stupid and unrealistic... I just like to be different, I don't always like to 'go with the flow'.
However, I have decided that I shall try write a blog post at least twice a week.
So today's post is going to be about Y O U.
Yes, you there, the person reading these very words.
I've always been into the whole inspirational mojo, and I'm really intrigued by psychology and things that trigger our emotions, and our actions.
But this isn't a post about what I enjoy, its about what I believe everyone needs to realise and accept.
A couple of days ago I was going through an old diary of mine, and found a heap of quotes and 'inspirational mojo', and thought I would share some things with you.
First of all, your metal and physical health comes before anything.
Here are some things to keep that in check..
12 steps of self care:
- If it feels wrong- If it doesn't feel right, don't do it!
- Say what you mean, don't be afraid to share your opinion.
- Don't be a people pleaser. Of course that doesn't mean you can be a non people pleaser, but don't just do things because others want you to.
- Trust your instincts.
- Do not speak bad about yourself- negative mind = negative world.
- never give up on your dreams, nothing happens overnight.
- Don't be afraid to say 'no'.
- Don't be afraid to say 'yes'.
- be kind to yourself, go easy, people make mistakes. It's part of what makes us human.
- Let go of what you can't control.
- Stay away from drama and negativity, it will only cause you troubles.
- Love.
Don't listen to Queen Elsa.
If you're struggling, or you need to just vent.. talk to someone. Who knows, they might understand what you're going through and give you some life changing advice. And if they don't, it still feels good to let it all out.
Remember:
Nothing would be the same if you didn't exist.
You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars.
You have every right to be here.
I could go on and on, but I'm going to stop here.
Something I would like all of you to do is comment below what you love about yourself, or what you would like to concentrate on this year.
The future is ours, 2015 belongs to us. Lets own it. Take control of your life and be the best you can possibly be. Strive to emit radiance. And just breathe. There will be choices to make, and chances to take, and I believe everyone needs to come to realise that everything happens for a reason. And yes, to every cloud, there is silver lining.
So, without further a due... To new beginnings..
H x
